Why are you even wondering why your man is no longer in love with you? Is it your tingling gut feel that makes you ask? Or are there already glaring signs that you no longer captivate him?
If he's always deep in thought.
One of the most obvious indications that he's already starting to drift away is when he's no longer able to keep his attention on you. His eyes are always somewhere and he seems to be quiet most of the time.
He forgets important dates.
It's human to forget a date or two but to see him forgetting the most important dates such as your anniversary, Valentine's Day and even your birthday would be too much! It's forgivable if he forgets your dad's birthday but the dates that were aforementioned should be important to him.
He no longer kisses you passionately.
If this guy rarely kisses you, if he doesn't even close his eyes when you lock lips, then he might not be that in love with you anymore. Little to no kissing means that he could already be thinking of ways to ditch you.
He rarely goes out with you.
He seems to be more interested in spending time with his male buddies or even his colleagues. A boyfriend who makes up excuses just so he won't date you out is someone who's probably bored with your relationship or he could already be falling out of love.
He prefers group dates.
And if he ever agrees to go out with you, this guy will make sure that you won't have an opportunity to discuss your relationship. He will stick with as many friends as he possibly can just so he can keep you at bay.
He seems to pick on you each day.
Every day with him is like pick-on-me day. It is extremely easy for him to argue with you. If you're unlucky, he might even get to demeaning you just to turn you off. This is his way of letting the world know that he's no longer interested in you. And, yes, he treats you like garbage.
He seems to be doing a lot of overtime work.
This is, of course, one of his excuses once again. He will conveniently tell you that you won't be seeing much of him because in the next few days or weeks. And during those days, he won't even be communicating with you. You'll observe that your calls will go directly to his answering machine.